Why Girls like Boys.

Society is changing, and more and more girls are missing out.

Boys are spending more time on their hair than we are, boys are becoming insecure and vain and girls are missing out on the guys that they've always dreamed of.

I was taking a bath before, and i was just thinking about this stuff.

I believe there are three main reasons why girls like boys and a whole of stuff that girls despise in guys and in this post, i hope to address some of them.

Number 1:Confidence.

I see way too many facebook groups that guys join saying "Girls should make the first move"and "girls want sex just as much as guys" and "girls should make the first move, and that move should be a sandwich".
It is seriously depressing. I have some male friends, and most of them like a particular girl, but they chose to do absolutely NOTHING about it. Be BOLD, my friends. if you are keen on a girl, and you know who she is, know what she stands for and you are genuinely interested, YOU make the first move.
Thats YOUR job.
I'm not TECHNICALLY male, but one thing i am pretty sure of. Boys have to do this stuff to grow into men.
Broad statement, but i believe it's true. The teenage years are a delicate stage for both sexes, and they are a period of learning. And boys, have to learn to become men. And that involves being courageous, taking risks stepping outside of your teeny weeny comfort zone and being.... umm whats the word? Men.
Once upon time in the olden days, gentleman would "Woo" the girl. There was this concept, that a girls affections were prized and something to be won. But now we have the girls chasing after the boys and trying to gain the affections of the males. Girls are the ones peacocking now, dressing over-the-top, being flirtatious and attention seeking, and boys just sit back and enjoy the show.
I hate that.
Boys are being complacent and lazy, and in the process, girls value is degraded. A girls affection has no worth any more.

Number 2: Passion

Have you ever wondered why girls fall so hopelessly in love with Rock Stars and Celebrities? It's because they've got one thing that you probably lack: Passion.
Girls see rockstars on stage, giving their all and loving what they do. Movie stars often portray interesting life changing and PASSIONATE characters, and girls can't help but fall in love.
Boys that are passionate are irresitable to girls.
To Christians girls, guys that are passionate about God, are... the definiton of irresitable. Trust me. I've talked to other girls about this. Even if the guy is butt ugly, Passion for God is..... amazing. Gah. Trust me. But yes. Be passionate about music, art, be passionate about changing the world. Just be passionate about SOMETHING.

Number 3: Work Hard

Did you know that girls actually don't really like being better than you?
That's a turn off. Girls don't like it when they're smarter than you, stronger than you or more talented than you. Girls don't like it when they do better than you at school, you know why? Because grades usually equal effort. If a girl works harder than you, that is shameful to you. You should be ashamed.
Breaking news: girls like muscles. Shock horror: Muscles are the product of WORKING HARD. And girls like that. Good grades are the product of working hard. And girls like that.
Try hard in everything you do. Be PASSIONATE with everything you do. WORK HARD. Maths test? Work Hard and STUDY. Cross country? Work hard and TRAIN. Science competition? Try your best.
Be competitive, not in a jerky way. But in a passionate, fun way. Not in the douchey way where you become an arrogant jerk, but in a way that encourages others. Thats hot *Paris Hilton voice*.
If you win the cross country, girls notice you. May not fall for you, but start noticing you. If you top the class, girls notice you. If you got muscles, girls notice you.


Why do you think girls always fall for jerks? Thats really annoying ay.

I'll tell ya. Jerks are arrogant, and confident. A little arrogance is good. But not too much. Jerks are confident, and girls loooove confidence. and since they're arrogant, they elude to the fact that they are better than everyone else. And girls like guys that work hard and therefore like guys that are better than them. And BAM. Nice girls are taken by jerks. You gotta give the jerks credit, they go for the girl.

Many teenage boys spend more time on their hair than i spend on mine. ew. And many boys are lazy, and complain all the time, and spend WAY too much time of the x-box. And, a lot more boys are becoming insecure. Srsly.
If you have the mindset that you a gangly and lame and no girls will ever like you, then you will become that. be confident, be passionate, and work hard, dammit!

Girls do NOT like laziness.

Girls do NOT like making the first move.

Girls do NOT like boring.

Girls do NOT like a goal-less male.

Girls do NOT like to be second best.

Girls LIKE fairy tales.

Girls LIKE to be pursued.

Girls LIKE to be prized.

Girls LIKE to be number one.

SO guys: Work hard, be passionate, and be strong and courageous, my friends

AND GIRLS WILL LIKE YOU.

school computers are soooooo sloooooooww. And now i'm gunna do something cool and change cool stuff on my blog, to make it look less thriteen year old.

i got in the car today and i told my mum about my incident today, and i started crying. crying in the car.

I have not been yelled at by a eacher for about three years. in fact, i cant remeber a time when a teacher has yelled at me like that, but i'm going to assume there has been, and that it was three years ago.

was i disrespecting her? No.
was i deliberately disobeying her? No.
was i swearing? No.
was i causing myself or others physical pain? No.
was i bullying another student? No.
was i caught smoking or drinking? No.
was i doing anything illegal? No.
was i doing anything against school rules? No.
was i the only one involved? No.

Sure, i was being disruptive. But it hardly warranted that reaction. I was outside, 2 minutes till the bell, with permission, using an outside voice, talking to a student who had already been excused from class on the balcony.

OMG! they come storming outside yelling and carrying on, i say sorry and smile and pack my stuff up. But OH NO! I'm being "extremely disrespectiful" for walking away when they asked me to go inside.

Now they are "not impressed" with me.

I spent the lunch time on my belly. Immobile. With sadness. My entire day ruined.

I talked to someone in the class, and she said "well, she was already really annoyed with the class"

Okay, so that explains a bit. But still. It's not okay to blow your top and make a kid cry just because your feeling frustrated that day.

They say students dont know whats going on in teachers lives, well ditto.

You rarely see students blowing their tops because their frustrated with a class.



Sigh. I should really stop saying this stuff. but i just feel sad and angry and sad. I need to have a good cry. Maybe have some icecream.

Dear Teacher,
I'm sorry for yelling. I really didn't mean anything by it. It was only 2 minutes till the bell so i didn't think anything of it.
I understand that you were having a bad day and you were already annoyed and stuff, and i'm sorry about that too.
I hope you will forgive me for yelling and making your life a bit harder.
and i'm sorry for blogging about it.
But don't worry. Nobody reads my blog anyway.

From a student your not impressed with,
Mariah.

P.s. no sarcasm intended.

You've got the love, you've the love oh you've got the LOOOOOOOOOVEEEE!!!!!!!!!!

*extreme happy dance*

nobody comments here anymore.

nobody comments here anymore.

This brings me sadness.

If i go to the effort of writing about my day, you comment on it you inconsiderate fools!


Okay, now that you are feeling angry and saddened by the sentense above, take the time to simply comment about how it makes you feel.

We are a small community, so why don't we just take the time to comment. Even if it's just

"Cool Story Bro"

or

"you suck"

or

"I love you."


Because deep down, thats all we really want. Isn't it?

*que inspirational music*

TO HAVE OUR EXISTENCE RECOGNISED!

Out.

VERRY SAD STORIIIIII!!!!!
boi: y r u crying?!?!!??
grl: i fink im pregnunt :(
boi: ok I pull ow willy stp u get pregnunt
BOI PULL HIZ WILLY OFF 2 STP HIZ BRD GETTIN PREGGURZ
girl: I LUV U /333333333333333333333333333
DIS IS TRU LUV!
Like this is you didn't cry and couldn't understand a word the person who made this said

a Nights Progress, destroyed in a couple of Seconds.

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