Society is changing, and more and more girls are missing out.
Boys are spending more time on their hair than we are, boys are becoming insecure and vain and girls are missing out on the guys that they've always dreamed of.
I was taking a bath before, and i was just thinking about this stuff.
I believe there are three main reasons why girls like boys and a whole of stuff that girls despise in guys and in this post, i hope to address some of them.
Number 1:Confidence.
I see way too many facebook groups that guys join saying "Girls should make the first move"and "girls want sex just as much as guys" and "girls should make the first move, and that move should be a sandwich".
It is seriously depressing. I have some male friends, and most of them like a particular girl, but they chose to do absolutely NOTHING about it. Be BOLD, my friends. if you are keen on a girl, and you know who she is, know what she stands for and you are genuinely interested, YOU make the first move.
Thats YOUR job.
I'm not TECHNICALLY male, but one thing i am pretty sure of. Boys have to do this stuff to grow into men.
Broad statement, but i believe it's true. The teenage years are a delicate stage for both sexes, and they are a period of learning. And boys, have to learn to become men. And that involves being courageous, taking risks stepping outside of your teeny weeny comfort zone and being.... umm whats the word? Men.
Once upon time in the olden days, gentleman would "Woo" the girl. There was this concept, that a girls affections were prized and something to be won. But now we have the girls chasing after the boys and trying to gain the affections of the males. Girls are the ones peacocking now, dressing over-the-top, being flirtatious and attention seeking, and boys just sit back and enjoy the show.
I hate that.
Boys are being complacent and lazy, and in the process, girls value is degraded. A girls affection has no worth any more.
Number 2: Passion
Have you ever wondered why girls fall so hopelessly in love with Rock Stars and Celebrities? It's because they've got one thing that you probably lack: Passion.
Girls see rockstars on stage, giving their all and loving what they do. Movie stars often portray interesting life changing and PASSIONATE characters, and girls can't help but fall in love.
Boys that are passionate are irresitable to girls.
To Christians girls, guys that are passionate about God, are... the definiton of irresitable. Trust me. I've talked to other girls about this. Even if the guy is butt ugly, Passion for God is..... amazing. Gah. Trust me. But yes. Be passionate about music, art, be passionate about changing the world. Just be passionate about SOMETHING.
Number 3: Work Hard
Did you know that girls actually don't really like being better than you?
That's a turn off. Girls don't like it when they're smarter than you, stronger than you or more talented than you. Girls don't like it when they do better than you at school, you know why? Because grades usually equal effort. If a girl works harder than you, that is shameful to you. You should be ashamed.
Breaking news: girls like muscles. Shock horror: Muscles are the product of WORKING HARD. And girls like that. Good grades are the product of working hard. And girls like that.
Try hard in everything you do. Be PASSIONATE with everything you do. WORK HARD. Maths test? Work Hard and STUDY. Cross country? Work hard and TRAIN. Science competition? Try your best.
Be competitive, not in a jerky way. But in a passionate, fun way. Not in the douchey way where you become an arrogant jerk, but in a way that encourages others. Thats hot *Paris Hilton voice*.
If you win the cross country, girls notice you. May not fall for you, but start noticing you. If you top the class, girls notice you. If you got muscles, girls notice you.
Why do you think girls always fall for jerks? Thats really annoying ay.
I'll tell ya. Jerks are arrogant, and confident. A little arrogance is good. But not too much. Jerks are confident, and girls loooove confidence. and since they're arrogant, they elude to the fact that they are better than everyone else. And girls like guys that work hard and therefore like guys that are better than them. And BAM. Nice girls are taken by jerks. You gotta give the jerks credit, they go for the girl.
Many teenage boys spend more time on their hair than i spend on mine. ew. And many boys are lazy, and complain all the time, and spend WAY too much time of the x-box. And, a lot more boys are becoming insecure. Srsly.
If you have the mindset that you a gangly and lame and no girls will ever like you, then you will become that. be confident, be passionate, and work hard, dammit!
Girls do NOT like laziness.
Girls do NOT like making the first move.
Girls do NOT like boring.
Girls do NOT like a goal-less male.
Girls do NOT like to be second best.
Girls LIKE fairy tales.
Girls LIKE to be pursued.
Girls LIKE to be prized.
Girls LIKE to be number one.
SO guys: Work hard, be passionate, and be strong and courageous, my friends
AND GIRLS WILL LIKE YOU.
This is amazing!!!!!!! Miriah so true took me ages to find one that was a prince charming :P
ReplyDeletehahah glad you like it!
ReplyDeleteMiah, you are truly amazing!!! Thankyou for putting words to all my slaps! :P
ReplyDelete:D :D
ReplyDeleteI wrote this post for girls like us, Esther Blueburger!!!!!!!!!
:)
Mariah, this is incredible.
ReplyDeleteCan i chat with you about this? i'd love to use it for a girls night in the future.
Mariah. this is fantastic!!!! it's amazing. and I agree 100% here girl, good one youuu!
ReplyDeleteLove you long time. Keep it up (:
Courtney B xooxxo
naww Thanks Courtney :D
ReplyDeleteheaps glad you liked it :)
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